MTN Lagos Fashion Week 2011 has ended and it was totally amazing but before I get into all the gist, I just need to let you all know the '
wahala' you guys on this blog have got me into oh - so at different points while I was photographing and doing my thing, several people came over and complained about all the negative comments that have been allowed on
Seriously Doughnuts and I have to confess that it bothers me a little, that I directly or indirectly made people feel awful to have been at the end of the '
horrible' comment stick. It's one thing to say whatever you like about me after all I started the blog and I put myself out there (
besides I can always delete the rubbish) but for people that innocently smiled for the camera, I think it is absolutely unfair to be abused by '
Anonymous readers'
I'm naturally a lover, I think the best and look for positive sides to every situation but I'm starting to understand that I am blessed and not everyone has the capacity to love, some people are just full of so much bile and hate that they think everyone has a motive for liking someone..
I'm very safe in my skin and I have no problem at all liking or loving someone or something, it's my life and I choose to live it in
COLOUR!. The long and short of it is that I admire people that put themselves out there, aim and achieve whatever they set their minds to. Nigeria is a tough terrain to live or work and those that excel have paid a price. That to me is worth celebrating and I choose to do that through
Seriously Doughnuts...
I think it's ridiculous that I found myself apologising to people over
Seriously Doughnut comments but I did with all sincerity. I have thought it through and decided that rather than put people down, I would rather build them up with words of encouragement.Therefore, henceforth, unkind negative comments will no longer be allowed on
Seriously Doughnuts as so many have found such comments to be very hurtful and that we truly regret.
I appreciate you taking time to comment but if you have a problem and with anyone, please take it up directly with the person but Seriously Doughnuts will not be a springboard for perpetuating hate but if you have love in your heart and a great word of encouragement to share, you are more than welcome to send in constructive and objective comments.
Thank you very much for your readership, support, attention and understanding...Let there be love shared amongst us peeps....Have a great day ahead!
Lots of love,
Bola O. for Seriously Doughnuts